Friday, May 29, 2009

Love that face!

Would you care to see what keeps me going when I'm running on 5 hours of sleep and a cold shower?



I know. Adorable. Simply adorable.


Pretty good motivation to keep moving forward. I just have to say how much I love these kiddos. What a blessing.
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May

This month Guy for a haircut. We did it ourselves (my first time cutting his hair) and I'm pretty pleased. It's not perfect, so don't look too close, but it'll do.




And Leo, the lucky devil, started solids this month. He's still getting the hang of it, and doesn't really eat much at all, but I'm sure if I keep trying he'll eat more than 1/2 teaspoon at a time. Right?

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Friday, May 22, 2009

Eye of Sauron?



Behold the evil eye.

I went in there this afternoon for one thing. ONE THING! Which they didn't carry.

And I spent $30.

Oh, well. Better luck next time. I really just need to remember that I won't spend money if I don't go ANYWHERE.

Irony

You want irony?

I worked to make a lovely dinner, huge salads, and grilled steak. The steaks were AWFUL. Really tough and awful. Freezer burn? Maybe. Or perhaps just a bad cut.

So I saved 75 cents by line-drying two loads of laundry. But spent $14 at Arby's.

After having made a huge mess in the kitchen that still needs to be cleaned up.

Even better? Right after I fetched my nice clean laundry, Leo spit up. Major. All over my favorite (and only well fitting) pair of jeans.

Tuesday, May 19, 2009

Streamlining

I'm posting my notes to an Enrichment I attended last week for my friends who couldn't make it, and anybody else who's interested. The topic is "Streamlining" and it was given by Alice Fulton, the author of the book It's Here . . . Somewhere.

Streamlining is not organizing. Organizing is putting things in a place, streamlining is dumping the stuff you don't need to make managing easier. Once the extra stuff is gone, the responsibilities associated with managing it are reasonable (namely, cleaning).

Today we are space-poor and thing-rich, and it's only going to get worse as we get older. "A place for everything, and everything in its place" works well only if you have more space than things. Space is fixed, but the stuff you have is variable. Having less is easier to manage, and clutter only makes a house look dirty.

Focus on QUALITY over QUANTITY. Big isn't better, it's just big.

Streamlining is touching every physical thing you own, and deciding:
Do I like it? Do I use it? Do I need it? Do I have room for it?

THE STREAMLINING PROCESS:
1: prepare
Making these decisions is exhausting, so prepare ahead of time. Explain to your family exactly what will happen, how it will happen, and why it's happening. And then don't touch their stuff.
Clear your calendar, prep meals ahead, collect containers (large and small--but don't buy them) and make a plan to have everything removed at the end of the day (DI, etc.)
2: collect containers
Have containers for things to donate, things to put elsewhere, things to file (documents and photos) and trash bags for garbage.
3: work clockwise
Pick a place to start. Dragging your containers with you, fill them as you go. Clear off surfaces.
4: evaluate and assign
Give every space a JOB, and make sure it's a good one.
5: ask the questions
Do I like it, need it, use it, and have space for it?
6: Group and store
Organize like with like, keep stuff used more frequently close at hand.
7: Use memory boxes
Give every family member a space limit on memories, and let the family members decide what gets kept and what gets thrown out. Help little kids to evaluate when the box's lid will no longer shut.
8: Enjoy the empty space
And use it to showcase who you really are.

TIPS AND TRICKS:
Under bed storage

Make a catalog of what lives under the beds. One card, divided into four, to list everything that's kept under all the beds. File it, then when you need something and you forgot where you stored it you won't have to get under every bed.
Wants and needs list
Make a wants and needs list for every room/space. This way you can have a goal for what your space will eventually look like. Don't make do with things you don't love, it's better to have empty space than something you don't like looking at until you can afford what you really want.
Clothing tips
Make sure it's in style, you like it, it fits right, has kept its shape, is a good color, has no unremovable stains, or torn hems, warn seams, etc.
QUALITY OVER QUANTITY
Get rid of wire hangers, use plastic until you can afford satin padded hangers.
Fold children's outfits together, especially for travel. Fold everything, place in pants, fold pants, and then turn inside out to make a "packet"
Kids don't need more than 8 outfits, and 1 or 2 for church.

And nobody needs six sets of sheets per bed, or eight towels per person. Yes, they'll wear faster, but you can replace them when you need to and enjoy your space in the meantime.

Wednesday, May 13, 2009

Yay for church-y stuff!

I just finished reading the transcript of the CES Fireside where Elder Bednar recently spoke.

A few things really stood out to me, namely his quoting Jacob 4:13 regarding the Lord's meaning of truth. An extension of this topic was the approach of not allowing virtual worlds, media, and technology to rob us of the physical experiences we need to have to progress.

He posed two questions that I'm trying to thoughtfully consider.
1. Does the use of various technologies and media invite or impede the constant companionship of the Holy Ghost in your life?
2. Does the time you spend using various technologies and media enlarge or restrict your capacity to live, to love, and to serve in meaningful ways?
Highly recommended reading. Good stuff.

Monday, May 11, 2009

Projects

I like having projects. Things I can think about when I'm bored, or holding a baby who loves to grab things and unable to do much other than think (this is happening a lot lately).

There's the crochet, the decorating projects (in both bedrooms), a play mat for Guy, foam lacing cards, compiling my own Children's Literature database, the spring cleaning, organizing projects, and of course now learning to play the guitar.

I'm thinking it might be time to finish one or four of these so I can focus a bit more on the others and still get every necessary task accomplished each day. Besides, nobody wants unfinished business hanging over her head.

Anybody have any quilt batting I can buy? :-)

Sunday, May 10, 2009

Mother's Day





This post is for every awesome Mom in my life.

I wanted to write something moving, something creative, something that wouldn't seem trivial. But all I've got is the memory of a day spent wiping noses, drying tears, laughing at how silly little boys can be, and an overwhelming feeling of grattitude that the Lord has given me a gospel of truth and love to teach to two adorable children. I simply know that it's always been worth it.

Lately we've been working through how to teach Guy to obey, and why it's important to listen to us as parents. I want more than anything for him to be so happy! But letting him stay up past bedtime, or skip naps, or stay outside in the sunshine too long results in an unhappy boy. Gives me a bit of an idea how God must feel when seeing me pass through trials, or when the consequences of my actions are painful. He wants me to be happy, but has the wisdom to know that giving in to my every request and letting me take the easiest road is not the way for me to find that quiet joy and peace.

So give a mother a hug today. She's likely trying hard to do the right thing for her kids, even if it seems to be difficult for the moment. Eternal rewards, that's what we seek. But the giggles and smiles sure help us along the way!
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Sunday, May 3, 2009

Umm . . .

So, 10 minutes ago we set up an interview for this evening with the Stake Presidency.

Of the BYU 9th Stake. Yes, that is not the stake we live in.

Update will be forthcoming when appropriate. But I'm betting my money that Josh is going to be in a bishopric.

UPDATE: The interview wasn't to extend a calling, it was a get-to-know-you interview. Then, if they want to extend a calling, they can. I can't tell you the relief I felt afterwards, because now they can take into consideration Josh's condition before extending him a stressful calling.

Friday, May 1, 2009

Oh, the insanity

I put Guy down for a nap. Lots of weeping and wailing. He's overtired, not surprisingly, BECAUSE HE'S GOTTEN UP AT 6 A.M. EVERY DAY THIS WEEK.

Of course, I put Leo down, get him to sleep, and Guy starts yelling for me. I go in to make sure everything's okay, and it is, but he's super upset, and starts howling.

Waking up Leo. FRUSTRATING.

Oh, and I bought a guitar today. I've been keeping an eye on it for weeks, but they just dropped the price and added free shipping. So today's the day. The deed is done.

Add that to my Costco trip, and I spent 1/3 the amount of our monthly rent today. And it's only the first of the month.